Dewisiadau – Rhaglen Newid Ymddygiad

 

 

Nod ein rhaglen cyflawnwyr 'CHOICES' yw herio credoau, agweddau ac ymddygiad dynion 18 oed a throsodd, sy'n cymryd rhan mewn gweithredoedd cam-drin domestig. Mae'r ymyriad hwn yn ein galluogi i gynyddu diogelwch dioddefwyr cam-drin domestig.

Bydd y rhaglen yn cefnogi newid ac mae dealltwriaeth dynion o gam-drin a pherthnasoedd, addysgu ffyrdd o fod yn ddi-gam, a mynd â dynion drwy raglen strwythuredig iawn, sy'n gam wrth gam, yn cefnogi newid cadarnhaol.

Yn dibynnu ar amgylchiadau a lleoliad yr unigolyn, gallwn weithio gyda'r sawl sy'n cyflawni mewn lleoliadau un i un a grŵp (sy'n cael ei ddarparu ar hyn o bryd gan Zoom). Darperir cymorth yn rhad ac am ddim yn ardal Heddlu Dyfed Powys: SIR GAERFYRDDIN, SIR BENFRO, CEREDIGION a PHOWYS.  Codir tâl am bob cymorth y tu allan i'r ardal hon.

Nid rhaglen rheoli dicter yw hon, na gwasanaeth cwnsela.

 

Cymhwysedd:

Mae rhaglen cyflawnwyr CHOICES yn gweithredu'n bennaf ledled rhanbarth Dyfed Powys.

Mae asesiad cychwynnol y mae'n rhaid ei gwblhau cyn cymryd rhan yn y rhaglen.

Mae'r Rhaglen:

The course runs weekly for approximately 46hrs plus initial assessment, bespoke 1:1 session and post-group check-in. All work is completed in accordance with the RESPECT standards, survivor safety is a key part of our Choices programme. Our Integrated Safety staff, work closely with current & Ex partners developing personal safety plans and providing in-depth support.

This enables the survivors to have a voice, to have someone by their side, to help us understand what is still going on at home still and if a change is truly happening.

Mae'r rhaglen hon yn cael ei rhedeg ar sail dreigl gyda gwahanol bwyntiau lle gall dynion newydd ymuno â'r rhaglen.

 

Mae'r pynciau a drafodir ar y rhaglen yn cynnwys:

  • Parenting
  • Agosatrwydd Emosiynol
  • Parch Rhywiol
  • Rhyw
  • Cymorth ac Ymddiriedolaeth
  • parch

Nodau'r rhaglen yw:

  • Lleihau effaith cam-drin domestig drwy ymgysylltu cadarnhaol ac ymagwedd arloesol.
  • Cynyddu diogelwch dioddefwyr a'u teuluoedd sy'n profi cam-drin domestig.
  • Helpu cyfranogwyr ar y rhaglen i ddeall effeithiau eu hymddygiad ar eu partneriaid, plant ac eraill.
  • Annog cyfranogwyr i gymryd cyfrifoldeb am eu hymddygiad a gwneud camau cadarnhaol i newid.
  • Deall y rheswm pam maen nhw'n defnyddio trais a cham-drin.

Mae'r rhai a gefnogir drwy'r rhaglen CHOICES wedi adrodd:

  • Gwelliant sylweddol yn eu perthnasoedd
  • Gwell cyfathrebu
  • Gostyngiad sylweddol mewn trais
  • Rhianta gwell
  • Gwell ymwybyddiaeth o'r effeithiau y mae trais yn y cartref yn eu cael ar eu partneriaid a'u plant
  • Dywedodd y plant eu bod yn teimlo'n fwy diogel
  • Roedd iechyd a lles y teulu cyfan wedi cynyddu
  • Gostyngiad yn nifer y bobl sy'n cymryd rhan yn yr heddlu

Ar gyfer rhai astudiaethau achos o'r gwaith a wnaed ar y rhaglen hon, pwyswch y lluniau proffil isod:

Cyfranogion:

Gall atgyfeiriadau gael eu gwneud gan asiantaethau partner neu gan yr unigolion eu hunain. E-bostiwch Ymholiadau @threshold-das.org.uk neu ffoniwch 01554 752422 os ydych yn byw yn Ardal Heddlu Dyfed Powys.

 

The Choices programme is free of charge to all who live within the Dyfed-Powys region, as this is a funded programme through Dyfed-Powys PCC.

If you live outside of Dyfed-Powys and the referral to Choices is being made by a statutory organisation such as Social Services, then there will be a fee of £1800.00 to cover the cost of the programme in total.

If you are self-referring and live outside Dyfed-Powys, the fee to complete will be £1700.00.

Please contact D Evans or R Owen for further information regarding programme outline and costs:  devans@threshold-das.org.uk rowen@threshold-das.org.uk 

Os ydych wedi cymryd rhan yn ein rhaglen CHOICES, a allwch lenwi'r holiadur canlynol gan ddilyn y ddolen hon!

 

Watch our Domestic Abuse Choices Perpetrator Programme Video Here

 

From DA male who completed the programme in 2021: 

“Again, I would like to say a massive thank you to you and your team for all the help and guidance you have given me during this programme. I will forever be grateful to you for helping me save my amazing family.

 

From DB male who completed the programme in 2021, when asked about the programme and why it has been useful:

“Beyond my expectations.  It has put me in touch with my emotions, thinking, attitude & general approach to life”

 

From MW female whose partner completed the programme in 2021:

“I wish I could express in words more than I have on how much the programme has supported us and I do not know where we would have been without the support we have received. “

 

From ME male who completed the programme in 2021:

I first want to thank you all for changing my life for the better I am well aware that this will be an ongoing process for the rest of my life so when I can contact you when I’m struggling is a great comfort.

I feel my ways of thinking have changed and that is down to the strategies I have learned that threshold my marriage is stronger than it’s ever been and I look forward to the future in my wife thank you.”

 

From WF male who completed the programme in 2022:

I’m much more thoughtful about how my words affect the situation. This has led me to be much calmer when things aren’t going as planned. I also think that this has made me a more patient man.

 

From AS male who completed the programme in 2019:

“I now understand that I am the only one who can control my actions and sometimes all you need to do is stop and think before acting.

 

From BS male who completed the programme in 2020:

Through the course, I have been able to see what constitutes an unhealthy relationship so that I can see how to make a healthy one.

 

From JL male who completed the programme in 2019:

What you have done for me has been brilliant. To start I thought I would never go home, getting the knowledge of how to behave differently made a huge difference in my life.

 

From MH male who completed the programme in 2019:

“I’ve learned to take my partner’s feelings into consideration rather than just my own. We share a lot more with each other, respect each of the space, and now trust each other again.”

 

From Anon male who completed the programme in 2019:

It has been quite painful and very embarrassing at times seeing my previous behaviour written down and being talked about in Group sessions. Life at home is very different now while we are rebuilding our relationship.”

 

 

Rhannwch y dudalen hon: